Five Ways to Overcome Imposter Syndrome and Boost Your Confidence

Hey there! I’m so glad you’re here. If you’re reading this, you’re probably thinking about starting your own group home, or maybe you’ve already taken those first brave steps. Either way, you’re in the right place because today, I want to talk about something we all face at some point—imposter syndrome.

Let me tell you, even after years of running my group homes remotely, that nagging voice of self-doubt didn’t magically disappear. If anything, it got louder! Questions like, “Am I really cut out for this?” or “What if people find out I don’t really know what I’m doing?” popped up more often than I’d like to admit. Does any of that sound familiar?

If it does, let me assure you—you’re not alone. Imposter syndrome seems to show up whenever we’re stepping into something new or outside our comfort zone. But here’s the good news: you can overcome it. Let’s dive into how you can quiet that voice of self-doubt and step fully into your confidence.

Here’s what you’ll find in this post:

1. Acknowledge and normalize your feelings

2. Build your own support squad

3. Celebrate Every Win, Big or Small

4. Call Out the B.S. (Bias and Stereotypes)

5. Keep growing and Learning

5 Ways to Kick Imposter Syndrome to the Curb and Step Into Your Confidence

Whether you're just dreaming of opening your group home or you’re already knee-deep in the process, here are my top tips for overcoming those feelings of self-doubt:

1. Acknowledge and Normalize Your Feelings

First things first, it’s okay to feel like an imposter sometimes. It’s not just a “newbie” problem—even experienced business owners deal with it. Recognizing that these feelings are normal can be a huge relief. So when self-doubt creeps in, remind yourself: “I’m not the only one feeling this way.”

One thing that helps me organize my thoughts and emotions is my Day Designer planner. It’s been my go-to tool for years to keep everything on track and reduce overwhelm.

2. Build Your Own Support Squad

When I first started, I was trying to figure everything out on my own, and that’s when imposter syndrome really sank its teeth into me. But once I found a mentor and connected with others in the group home space, everything changed. If you’re serious about this journey, find a mentor or join a community (like my Group Home on Autopilot newsletter). Sharing your wins, struggles, and everything in between with people who get it makes all the difference.

3. Celebrate Every Win, Big or Small

I’m a huge fan of celebrating milestones—whether it’s getting your first resident moved in or just surviving your first month as a group home owner. Seriously, take a moment to celebrate your wins. Write them down, share them with your support network, or treat yourself to something special. These celebrations are proof that you’re moving forward, even when it feels like you’re not.

To keep track of my wins, I use Trello. It’s a simple and effective tool to stay organized and visualize progress. It’s a free tool I use to stay organized, and it helps me visualize my progress. Plus, it’s super easy to use.

4. Call Out the B.S. (Bias and Stereotypes)

Sometimes imposter syndrome isn’t just in our heads. It’s fueled by biases and stereotypes that make us feel like we don’t belong. If you’ve ever felt like the odds are stacked against you because of who you are, know this: you belong here just as much as anyone else. Don’t let external noise shake your confidence. Show up, advocate for yourself, and keep moving forward.

5. Keep Growing and Learning

If there’s one thing that’s helped me combat self-doubt, it’s investing in my own growth. Whether it’s reading books, taking courses, or learning from others who’ve been where I am, professional development has been key. Every new skill or piece of knowledge is a reminder that I’m equipped to succeed.

Wrapping It All Up: You’re Exactly Where You Need to Be

Starting and running a group home is no small feat. There will be ups and downs, but don’t let imposter syndrome hold you back. You are capable, deserving, and exactly where you need to be. Remember, self-doubt is just a sign that you’re challenging yourself and growing.

So tell me, which of these strategies speaks to you the most? How do you deal with imposter syndrome? Drop a comment below or reach out to me on social media—I’d love to hear from you! And if you’re looking for more tips and support on running your group home business, don’t forget to subscribe to my newsletter, Group Home on Autopilot.

Let’s quiet that imposter voice together and keep building something amazing. You’ve got this!! 🚀